The Third Taxi
Have you ever been in a taxi and felt afraid?
It’s happened to me three times — each time differently, but never forgotten.
The first time was in New York City.
I took a limo from my hotel to the airport. Once I was inside, the driver suddenly announced the price had gone up — by fifty percent.
When I refused, he started shouting. The volume, the unpredictability — that split second when you realize you’re in a moving car with someone angry — it’s a peculiar kind of fear.
I did the only thing I could think of. I asked for his chauffeur’s license number.
To my surprise, he stopped shouting, drove straight to the airport, and dropped me off at the agreed price.
Apparently, he was missing something more than manners
The second time was in Paris.
A short late-night ride. The fare was eight euros. I handed him a twenty.
He yelled that he had no change and threatened to keep the whole bill.
It was dark. I was alone. The doors were locked.
Then I heard voices outside — my neighbour, who runs the wine shop downstairs, was just finishing a tasting. He and his guests came out to see what was going on.
And just like that, the tone shifted. The driver made change. I went upstairs.
Grateful, but shaken.
The third time was today.
And this one left a mark.
The meter was already at €20.70 when I got in — before the car had even moved.
I pointed it out politely.
He exploded.
Told me to get out of his taxi immediately.
The door was locked. For a second, I just stared at the back of his head, trying to decide whether to argue or stay quiet. The street was half-empty. I wasn’t sure where we were.
I said I’d leave when he dropped me somewhere safe.
He kept shouting — louder, faster — while I noted his taxi number and called the company.
Before I could finish, he pulled over, grabbed my arm, and pushed me out in front of an office building.
His hand wasn’t rough, but the shock of it was.
Fear has a strange texture — half physical, half disbelief.
One second, I was arguing; the next, I was on the sidewalk, phone in hand, heart racing.
For a moment, I just stood there, trying to decide whether to cry or laugh.
Moments later, I called another cab. The driver was calm, polite, and professional.
The fare for the whole trip? €24.
A Forrest Gump kind of day — you never know what you’re going to get.
Fear changes how you think.
You don’t reason; you triage.
You learn that calm isn’t the absence of fear — it’s what you build to survive it.
So I’ll ask again:
What would you do?
Holy moses! 1) That's scary. 2) You are so gutsy to complain in French in the moment. Totally impressed.
ReplyDeleteI think I was too mad to be scared!
ReplyDeleteYou rock!
ReplyDeleteBet cabbies think they can push women around ... never had such happen to me ... next time you get in cab act all exasperated and loudly say "I SWEAR if one more person tries to F with me today they are DEAD!"
ReplyDeleteAw come on. This is 2012 Cabbies think they can push women around? This makes no sense. I should say that of the thousands of times I have taken a taxi, I have had 3 such events ever. So the ratio is pretty good.
ReplyDeleteUnauthorized touching is clearly off limits, but easily rectified with a strong verbal response. Grabbing by the arm is violent and demands striking back. Some might choose striking back physically if you are confident you can prevail. A better approach would be to strike back with your brain. I would call that taxi manager back (I'm sure he remembers you) and demand this guy be immediately fired! I'd back that threat up by promising to buy space in every local newspaper warning people not to use the cab company, report it to every TV news station, and threaten to sue the company is they don't comply. I'd tell him you are in the media business and your relatives are well know lawyers.
ReplyDeleteAt the very least I don't think that guy will do that again.
Trust me when I say I was very clear with the manager I spoke to, including the fact that I was next calling the police and that I am waiting for a call back from the manager to hear how they will rectify the situation. I am not going to do a campaign against them, and am over the shock now, but a follow up is in order.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure that manager got an earful! Hopefully he acts responsibly.
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